More complicated, lengthy version, full of hidden meanings, large concepts, strategic euphemisms, nuanced phrases, commands, and oodles of THREATS – ALL all used to guide our fragile young developing minds, keep us isolated, and MOST of all, to hold us in place. We consider it our native language since we were bottle fed it – in place of real words – and it’s pretty hard to kick it, but we do try, since we know now, language has REAL power.